R/deadeyes Here

For years, I thought I was exaggerating. “They’re just tired.” “They’re just stressed.” But here’s the thing: a dead eye stare isn’t fatigue. It’s a choice. A refusal. It’s the most efficient weapon in the emotional neglect arsenal because it leaves no mark you can show anyone.

We talk a lot about narcissistic parents, borderline outbursts, and the chaos of growing up in a volatile home. But what about the other side of the abuse spectrum? The one that doesn’t yell, doesn’t hit, doesn’t even seem to notice you exist unless you’re in the way? r/deadeyes

Stay awake, friends.